This was pretty unplanned and by unplanned, i mean, very very out of the way of being planned. It might sound crazy but really, I never ever thought that i’d be expecting again anytime so soon and it was such a blow to me, for a while I thought that the whole thing would fade away. Just when I was getting somewhere in my life as in, in relationship with my husband, was getting to know motherhood better and thinking that I can handle it well, just when my first baby started to get set in his routine and finally was getting close to sleeping well through the nights with less nursing sessions than before.. I GET PREGNANT.
It was a big blow for me, I couldn’t handle it. I cried and prayed that it wouldn’t be the truth for sometime but than learnt to accept it as it is by God’s will. It’s a blessing and so many people and couples out there are trying and not being able to get it, so I should be thankful. Now I am mostly and I really think that maybe I’ll be able to get it right this time also. I was very happy with my only child and sometimes feel that it might be unfair to him but then maybe pife will become much more enjoyable and fun with two. If one can bring so much goodness and happiness then two would be way to go.!
I just hope things go in the right direction InshaAllah. And thankyou Allah.
Have you been through such times? Do you think that it’s ok to have the second baby with a one year gap between the first and second ?